A Process Essay: My Happiness Prescription without Love

An expression ‘love will make our life more colorful’ has represented human feelings. Its feelings are composed of happiness and admiration as well as empathy and loyalty. However, love will take a turn for the worse if you face the similar love experience to me. My story took place two years ago when my ex-boyfriend hurt me and declared that our relationship ended. Since that moment, I considered my life would be worthless. Fortunately, I succeeded to find my prescription for being happy every time so that I was ready to run my life without love.
Changing my worldviews is the first step in my prescription. At first, my life was always hidden my first unpleased love experience and now I am brave to become stronger woman without any love problem. I feel my life lighter than before because love will not burden me with its doctrine anymore. At first I deemed love as the most important thing in life and now it becomes the secondary thing I am not obligated to get and give. According to me, love is important but it is not the most important. I am convinced that I am able to become better although I am not being in love. Now my important thing is continuing my life for my dreams. I think I can get love from the other people such as my parents, relations, and friends. Moreover, I am also able to become the high-quality single without any people that will confine me to not do my activities. Many worldviews change I have done for my life delivered me to become stronger woman.
Having known I do not have any relationship, now I am customized to fill all days with many activities. I focus on the positive things in my self, in all interesting and tremendous things that I have. I occupied my self with the useful activities. Actually, all human have hobbies, and so do I am. I always used my time to do and expand my hobbies instead of being unemployed. Much alike with hobbies are habits. My habits that I usually do after being no relationship are listening to favorite music and reading both printed form and browsed form in cyberspace. I will compile my songs in I-pod and make my life more colorful with music. After doing my activities, I usually treat my body so that it will make my appearance fresh. Now, I have enough self-confidence to get socialized.
Broadening my friendship with everyone is also my ways to ignore my feeling of love. Now, I begin to associate with everyone from various circles of society. I will maintain my old-friends and increase my new-friends. Occasionally I act the foolish behavior together with my friends and laugh will become the interesting refreshment to me. That is why I would always expand friendship although I have had the most equal partner to fill my feeling for being in love.
            In short, my three steps for being happy without love have helped me to forget my last love experience. I will change my worldviews, fill my days with activities, and broaden friendship if I feel I do not get pleasure from this life because of not being in love. Will you follow my prescription I have shared with you if you get the love problems?


:: When I was a second year student, I produced it on my writing class. 

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